Representing Yourself in the Family Court

Navigating family court without a lawyer can be challenging, but you are not alone. This guide is here to help you understand the process, prepare effectively, and feel more confident in court. The is a short video in the Video Guides section of this website which explains what to expect and how to deal with a family court hearing here.

 If you don’t have a solicitor or barrister, you are a litigant in person. You still have the right to:

• Present your case
• Ask questions of the other party or witnesses (or have someone else e.g. the judge ask them on your behalf)
• Receive some support from the court (e.g., interpreters, safety arrangements)

You may also bring a McKenzie Friend—someone who can support you in court (though they cannot speak on your behalf unless the judge allows it).

 Before the hearing:

• Read the court papers carefully – understand what the case is about and what the court is being asked to decide.
• Organise your documents – keep everything in date order and make copies.
• Read through the last order – make sure you have done what the last order has asked you to do - for example sent a statement to the court and the other people in the case.

Helpful documents:

• Chronology (timeline of key events)
• Statement of issues (what you think the court needs to decide)

 A statement is your chance to explain:

• Who you are and your relationship to the child(ren)
• What has happened so far
• What you want the court to do
• Why you believe that’s in the child’s best interests

Keep it clear, respectful, and focused. Avoid blaming language.

There is more advice on writing a statement on this website. A short video on writing a statement for family court can be found in the Video Guides section here. There is detailed advice on writing statements on the "Help Writing a Statement' page of this website.

What to expect:

• Arrive early and check in with court staff
• You may wait before being called in
• The judge or magistrates will lead the hearing
• You’ll have a chance to speak and respond

Tips:

• Speak clearly and calmly
• Address the judge as “Sir” or “Madam”
• Take notes if needed
• Ask for clarification if you don’t understand something

The is a short video in the Video Guides section of this website which explains what to expect and how to deal with a family court hearing here.

It is a good idea to take a note of what the judge says. The judge may set out things that will happened next or the judge make make a decision that decides the issues in the case.

• The judge may give a decision straight away or later in writing
• Make sure you understand what was decided
• You will receive a copy of the order through the post or by email

If you disagree with the decision, you may be able to appeal, but this must be done quickly and with good reason. The rules for appealing are set out in The Family Procedure Rules Part 30 and Practice Direction 30A.

• Help with the Law - this Website
• Help Writing a Statement - this website
• McKenzie Friends - this website
• Video - Attending a First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA)? - What to Expect
• Video - Preparing a Statement for Family Court
• Video - Representing yourself in Family Court
• Advicenow Guides for Litigants in Person
• Support Through Court
• CAFCASS – Children and Family Court Advisory Service