Representing Yourself in the Family Court
Self-Representation in Family Court
Navigating family court without a lawyer can be challenging, but you are not alone. This guide is here to help you understand the process, prepare effectively, and feel more confident in court.
What Does It Mean to Represent Yourself?
If you don’t have a solicitor or barrister, you are a litigant in person. You still have the right to:
- Present your case
- Ask questions of the other party or witnesses (or have someone else e.g. the judge ask them on your behalf)
- Receive some support from the court (e.g., interpreters, safety arrangements)
You may also bring a McKenzie Friend—someone who can support you in court (though they cannot speak on your behalf unless the judge allows it).
Preparing for Court
Before the hearing:
- Read the court papers carefully – understand what the case is about and what the court is being asked to decide.
- Organise your documents – keep everything in date order and make copies.
- Read through the last order – make sure you have done what the last order has asked you to do - for example sent a statement to the court and the other people in the case.
Helpful documents:
- Chronology (timeline of key events)
- Statement of issues (what you think the court needs to decide)
Writing a Statement
A statement is your chance to explain:
- Who you are and your relationship to the child(ren)
- What has happened so far
- What you want the court to do
- Why you believe that’s in the child’s best interests
Keep it clear, respectful, and focused. Avoid blaming language.
There is more advice on writing a statement on the "Help Writing a Statement' page of this website.
On the Day of the Hearing
What to expect:
- Arrive early and check in with court staff
- You may wait before being called in
- The judge or magistrates will lead the hearing
- You’ll have a chance to speak and respond
Tips:
- Speak clearly and calmly
- Address the judge as “Sir” or “Madam”
- Take notes if needed
- Ask for clarification if you don’t understand something
After the Hearing
It is a good idea to take a note of what the judge says. The judge may set out things that will happened next or the judge make make a decision that decides the issues in the case.
- The judge may give a decision straight away or later in writing
- Make sure you understand what was decided
- You will receive a copy of the order through the post or by email
If you disagree with the decision, you may be able to appeal, but this must be done quickly and with good reason. The rules for appealing are set out in The Family Procedure Rules Part 30 and Practice Direction 30A.